Tub Disaster

Obviously, living frugally is an important part of my life. I’d even venture to say that it’s a generally overlooked life skill that once learned is a sanity saver. However, no matter how frugal you attempt to be, disaster has an unfortunate way of lurking around the corner.

And that is just what happened in our house recently. Our almost new house. Sigh.

I was in the mood to do some serious deep cleaning. I’m not sure why-temporary insanity? Perhaps. But I started in my teenager’s bathroom. What was I thinking? She is supposed to clean it weekly, but suffice it to say, her standards of cleanliness do not match mine. I’ll spare you the details, but in scrubbing her tub, I discovered an almost three inch crack in the fiberglass. Who knows how long it was there!

Luckily for us, my husband is a top notch handyman. He had never encountered this situation before, so off we went to the hardware store. I thought we’d be shopping for a new tub/shower combo, but hubby was on a mission to find a repair kit. Who knew? He verified a few things with the salesperson. In the conversation, the salesperson asked how old the tub was. Houses often have a one year warranty, but we were past that. However, the salesperson asked if we knew the brand of the tub, because they often have warranties as well.

Turns out, tubs are labelled with brand and model either on the lower left or lower right side. When we looked up the information online, we found the customsr service number…and even better, discovered that our particular tub has a twenty-five year warranty.

Service couldn’t have been easier. Tubs have serial numbers, and they were able to look ours up to find when it was purchased, even though were weren’t the ones to buy it.  A repairman came out and fixed it in one day.

So there you have it. What could have been a nightmare was fixed for free and with no hassle. Needless to say, that made my frugal heart happy!

From Stocking Up to Taking Stock

Before, when I was using coupons and apps to save money in my budget, I was confident that I only purchased what I would have anyways. I had discipline, after all. And though I stayed within budget, it was often difficult. I told myself that if I had extra in the budget and splurged, it was all in the name of stocking up.

But as I got more burned out, I started taking a look at what was in my pantry. After all, it’s rather difficult to stock up on fresh fruits and vegetables and have them last longer than a week. I realized I had more than a few boxes of prepackaged snacks and other processed foods that I normally shy away from.  Yes, I purchased them on sale and for a great price, but they weren’t the types of food I should be eating or feeding to my family. I was feeling run down, and had gained weight.

I have recommitted myself to eating healthy. I menu plan now around what is healthy. My budget is still under control, and yet the food I purchase is better quality and healthier. I thought I was stocking up in case of lean times, but in reality, our diet shifted to processed foods we could grab in a hurry. This led to all of us snacking more, and in the end, it wasn’t as much of a savings as I had thought.

I have to admit, I wonder if anyone else has gone through this, and how do they handle it? For now, I am content to focus on healthy food and finding other ways to cut into the budget. More on that in another post later, though.

Picking Up Where I Left Off

I fell off the savings wagon. I started with the best of intentions, and then life happened. Planning shopping trips to take advantage of sales and deals took a long, long time. The savings just didn’t seem to be worth it, especially since I detest all types of shopping as much as I do.  And the family wasn’t involved, so meal planning was just another chore.

I looked online for new ideas, but only saw variations of the same. Eat seasonally, shop the loss leaders. Meal plan, have a meatless day once a week. But I was looking for a more holistic approach.

I recently started thinking about this as I considered what to do with this blog. I wondered if I was rationalizing my budget laziness? While I may very well be doing just that, it has helped me put some things in perspective.

I’ll try to post more about the different aspects of my current approach. However, the first thing I changed was how I looked at “me” time. Before, I never made time for myself. I worked, did the planning, shopping, meal prep. By the end of the weekend, I was exhausted and resentful. That was not how I wanted to spend my family time.

I started exercising. Before, I considered it luxury time. Something to do if I “found” the time. We all know I never did. I ended up bloated, lacked energy, and just frustrated with how I looked and felt.

Once I heard about Steven Covey’s “Big Rocks”,  it put things into perspective for me. I was trying to put all the rocks in my jar, and not paying attention to my priorities. Working to keep my attitude positive was one of my big rocks. I needed to look at what would help that and let go of what would not.

The hours spent grocery planning went away, and now I exercise immediately after coming home from work. It’s a great stress relief, and is something I can do with my husband. I still have a ways to go to get to where I want to be, but this helps me to have a better attitude as I tackle daily frustrations, and allows me to spend time with my husband as we work towards our goals together. As another bonus, I have more energy to tackle my evenings.

As I was contemplating justification for my indulgence, I realized that exercise is great preventative medicine. I have had fewer colds and minor ailments since I started. Plus my blood pressure and heart rate are lower. Heart issues and diabetes run in my family, so really, you can figure I’m helping to protect my future budget from expenses related to healthcare.

And I’m much easier to be around.


Mid-Week Check In

Yes, I know it’s only Monday, but my grocery week started on Friday. So I wanted to report on my progress keeping to a grocery budget. To be honest, prior to this week, I didn’t really have a grocery budget per se. I used sales, coupons and grocery apps, but I didn’t try to stay below a certain amount.  As you can imagine,  this got out of hand rather quickly.

That all changed this week. I forgot when I set out to do this that I was going to be out of state on Friday and Saturday.  I think this is my first stroke of luck. Because of this, I wasn’t able to do my usual grocery shopping and instead had to make do with a couple of quick runs. My husband went on one while I was away and I ran after work today.

Because of this craziness, I’m only halfway through my budget. This can lead to great possibilities. Mainly, I’m hoping to stay out of stores for the rest of the week so I can have a cushion next week, especially since I’ll be needing meat and paper products. This budget challenge is making me realize just how often I give into impulse buys or picking up an extra “just in case” I’m low at home.

For food this week, I’m going to do a simple menu of “find it & use it”. Basically, I’ll be seeing what we have on hand and using it up. After this week, I’ll be menu planning as well. I hope.

Here is my pantry. I wonder how empty it’ll get?


New Year’s Resolutions

1420125143651My New Year’s resolution is simple, but it won’t be easy!  I want to find ways to cut our grocery budget in half. This is pretty ambitious, and to be honest,  I’m not certain I’ll manage to do it, but it’ll be fun to try! I know there are a lot of people who are able to have a much smaller budget with a much larger family. So why not us?

A little background about “us”: there are two adults, a teenage girl, and a preteen girl who make up the household.  My husband has allergies and food sensitivities, so our grocery purchases will reflect this. In addition, we are all focusing on eating better. This means eating more “real”‘ food and less processed foods. This is where I think the real challenge lies. How can a family eat healthy and not go broke?

A quick disclaimer: we also have two dogs and a cat. However, I will not be including pet supplies in the total budget. This is mainly because they are on special diets due to one having food allergies. Because of this, one bag of dog food would be two-thirds of the weekly budget. As much as I love my pets, on the weeks they need food, I’d rather not go hungry.

So ground rules: each week, I’ll allot myself $100 with which to do my shopping.  Once the money is gone, no borrowing against next week–I’ll have to scrounge and get creative with meals. On the other hand, if by some miracle,  I am under $100 for the week, I’ll roll it over to the next week. I am planning on using a checkbook register to track my progress. I’ll start with a $100 “deposit” and go from there.

In addition, my week will run Friday to Thursday.  With my schedule,  this is just what makes the most sense for me, but feel free to modify however you wish.

Finally, what items will be included in my new budget? Food, paper products, toiletries…pretty much anything that I buy at the grocery store/super center/butcher/specialty shop. I won’t include clothes or meals out.

So, what do you think?  Is a $100 budget reasonable for a family of four to live off? And not just live, but live well? Or does that seem like a large budget?